Close relationship is usually the place where we can relax and feel more confident. Out into the pu

Close relationship is usually the place where we can relax and feel more confident. Out into the public automatically puts on the mask, applied to the environment plays a role, and only when you get home we can kick off the armor and artillery, and finally relax. Unfortunately, in most cases, no armor does not protect against the adverse environmental impact, and all debris and dust builds movie25 up after them all day. Upon returning home to his neighbor and the man took off his guard, all the dust and debris spills out into the country and floods the one who is near. Spill silent or intense annoyance tirade movie25 on the governor, a coworker, urban congestion, and at the same time - nothing HRC partner whose movement off to the side, which you would move a lot of accumulated trash.
The problem is that most of our "protection" is nothing movie25 more than acting, movie25 the suppression, retention, which you can not, sooner or later no longer resist the pressure. Those who keep a guard and even intimate relationships usually have other consequences - depression, life taste nejautimą relations coldness and superficiality or physical ailments for "pickled" emotions.
Dominated by more or less the belief that in the second half, even children, is so that we can fully relax and lower the accumulated steam. Maybe we can not control the situation outside the home, but at least with your family can really act the way we want. After all, they love us unconditionally, and must accept as we are with all their accumulated negative energy and inadequate treatment. In addition, we also love them, and this fact should be enough theory to eliminate movie25 any of our their associated movie25 pain - love conquers all!
Nothing beats love because she does not fight with anyone, movie25 but for their own behavior and words have to answer. It is very easy to hurt someone close. After all, you are not alone folded guard when you are near. One thoughtless word with coarser energy charge and your partner are bleeding. If you do not understand, further svaidotės "soft" words (sometimes they really say is a mild tone, but appealing to the partner's weaknesses and sensitive areas), movie25 one day you will be able to shrug trying to understand why the relationship ended.
Not easy to adequately express their views, attitudes, needs, partner shortcomings that we see and are directly related to us so that deadly nesužeistume its second half. If both partners feel sufficiently secure to one another and sufficiently opens completely movie25 impossible not to injure. Still hurt each other over and over again, so in this case the time to use managerial abilities and pick out the bad situation the best you can.
It is impossible to vadybiškai watch on the situation, if you are in the midst of the emotional. Do you want to ejected on his second half in full force - forward. When wilt thou destroy him or her to the ground, movie25 you will be able to find another. Attention sweep can be very gentle and calm tone of the conversation, but again and again the pricking partner movie25 wounds, weaknesses, causing a feeling of inferiority, movie25 and so on. There are preferring to say - after all, he / she is not obliged to react so sensitively. Time to wake up and look around - near your person with feelings, inner wounds and pain built up over the unpleasant experience of life - and to take one step toward reparative taking at least some responsibility for the wounds pasaugojimą and even helping heal. Why do we still needed close relationship?
Hurt - sincerely apologize. One of the habits that develop the part of the people - free and without brakes hurt, and then attack the excuse. This immature human behaviors that are not used by those who want to apologize and feel the pain of the second half, and the fear that the other side will come out and leave. People have different accepts apology, so you have to learn what works with your second half. Someone enough to hear "I'm sorry, someone will want to know that you understand their mistake and regret movie25 (even if it was not intentional injury), but someone will have to repurchase the damage - in the restaurant for dinner, back massage, and so on.
Speak from your position and if you argue something about a partner, let him / her know that you do not want to hurt or harm. Speak from their positions mean the story about how you feel, what you think, as you would not like your partner movie25 should or should not do. If you want the partner's behavior is different from what it is now - ask, and let pageidaukite choose to do what you ask or not. No "if you love me, then ..." movie25 or other manipulations, unless your partner and relationship you sick. What it means to imply that you do not hurt? Time is cultivating researcher and observer skills, patience and perseverance to find out what and how much you hurt in the second half. Everything is simple only in theory, in practice, movie25 will be inspected as very important to you in your relationship, maybe it really the kind of person with what you would like to create.
We are each responsible for their own internal emotional